About The Blogger

My name is Tammy Lim and I am an award winning blogger from Top 10 Malaysia Magazine and Cleo Malaysia Magazine. I have been blogging since 2008 and I am also the founder of a local Malaysian beauty & lifestyle community called The Butterfly Project. People often tell me that I'm a wonder woman, but in reality - if it's something you love, you can do wonders.

When I'm not wondering, I'll be on my computer searching for the next fountain of youth or hunting down a fantastic deal. I'm also a shopaholic, wanderluster, spa enthusiast and proud hipster who loves planning special occasions and surprises for her loved ones.
  • Top 10 Female Bloggers in Malaysia Award
  • Cleo's Next Top Blogger Malaysia Award
  • Founder of The Butterfly Project Malaysia

  • My take on Chicken Wings & House Husbands


    house husbands, does it work? maybe, maybe not

    I woke up this morning before sunrise and ate chicken wings for breakfast. The very chicken wings from Kyochon Korean Fried Chicken, super spicy super nice, and also super small and super pricey. Okay minus super away I may be too dramatic here.

    Their tagline, no antibiotics (I guess small chickens) healthy chickens. I'm curious to know how their chickens stay healthy. Killed as a virgin? Never experiencing what's like like to date a cock? Their 3 promises,

    1. We will never, ever serve fast food
    2. We will only ever use 100% natural ingredients
    3. We will make healthy fried chicken from the heart

    So literally they're saying we are slow, just wait for your food. Use 100% natural ingredients, which I wonder, who will advertise otherwise which only means; the price tag explains itself now. Lastly, we will make healthy fried chicken from the heart. Look there's nothing healthy about being fried, and from the heart? Gotta, give a thumbs up to their copywriter.

    I am probably angsty because I paid nearly RM50 for 20 chicken wings & drummette. Let me recalculate that for you, nearly RM50 for 10 chicken wings (where it isn't cut into half and counted per piece to sell).

    Another reason why I'm angsty is while I was eating, I was also watching this movie called "The Intern" starring Robert Deniro and Anne Hathaway. This movie was rated 7.1 on IMDB so not bad. I like inspiring movies like this. It's about Jules (Anne Hathaway) who started her e-commerce fashion startup company and within 18 months it has boomed to over 200 employees. Big, beautiful factory turned office space, very modern, very industrial concept office space which I super like.

    experience never goes out of fashion

    Then comes along a senior intern, Ben (Robert Deniro) placed under her. Well, it seemed more like she was his instead because Ben helped in more ways than one to make her see the big picture. That's the difference between aged old experiences and the hungry, ambitious, risk takers of these generations who think everyone can start their company and get away with it. Which makes you think, or be angry. Just because it's a startup, doesn't mean you can use it as an excuse for everything.

    sorry guys we're a startup
    tables will come when we get next funding

    Back to the movie, Jules is the CEO, super busy, superwoman who also has a family - husband and a younger daughter. Husband is a house husband a.k.a stay at home father. Perfect right? Loving husband takes care of house, wife bring back the dough.

    Wrong, the husband has an affair outside. Wife thinks it's all her fault because of her busy schedule. Yada yada yada. Bullshit.

    hey, go back to square one. Women = family care taker
    men = brings back food n provides a place to stay

    I'm beginning to think there's a reason why women are the housewives. Women can multitask and take care of the family. A person who works is too busy to have a life. Sure no problem (if that's true because I'm so busy at work I don't even have time for myself let alone have an affair). However put the guy as the house wife, and hey... they come with a "pisang". The pisang ain't going to be satisfied staying at home waiting for the "busy" bread winner to come back.

    Pisang casing a.k.a Pisang Protectiong
    source: Adriana Skon

    Heck women has always been the committed one. Sorry, I'm a woman. I am on team "HER" and yeah Baby G said he didn't take me as the anti-men kind of a girl  (sexist?). Ops sorry... yes I'm anti-men person. Men don't know how to stay home and 'STAY HOME.' They were not programmed to take care of the family (and this don't mean take care using the money). 

    So wait, what I'm saying is... if the "Pisang" is going to be taking the role of a house husband, be prepared that it comes with a best before date girls. 


    1. I love this movie. I think it's really cute :)

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