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Standing Up For Myself

4.18.2010

Ursula in the little mermaid play

I've been keeping a secret for a long time, it started about the end of last year. For months since then I heard so much about what the person said about me and even witness it on several occasions how she tried to play it right in front of me not knowing that I already knew all the gossips, trash, curses, and even lies she spread about me. I was shocked, I have always been a good friend to her and I have even share & gave her many things as a friend. She was my reader and I took her under my wing and taught her how to be better blogger. When we got together, she would always backstabbed someone, be it a university senior, her blog readers and other bloggers in the beauty sphere. It was only a matter of time that I became the subject of her conversation with others.


poor Ariel, got cheated by a two face devil

It all started at this warehouse sale I finally gotten hold of two brush sets including the last piece in a box for a friend's birthday. Jealousy got the better of her and she started howling that a fat bitch has snatch her brush set. Seriously, how do one snatch or steal a person's brush set if it weren't hers in the first place?if that's called snatching, then she too has been snatching. Soon she was displaying her emotions and bitterness on the internet. Being a coward, she never confronted me about "snatching" her brush set. Her techniques were to call me various names like bitch, whore, snatcholic, megalomaniac, two face hypocrite and what not. She has great imagination, probably due to her staying at home doing nothing for years after she got knocked up from university. Yes I can call her names if I wanted too but my friends advised me to forget about her and just let her do whatever she wants. I find that hard when she's the two face hypocrite going around smiling and "buddying" with people she backstabbed and call names before. I guess there's nothing I could do about it but let time be the judge of her character.


backstabbing Stay at Home dropout?

The things she said on her facebook and gchat status about me shocked many people. She also became aggressively thick skin trying to show me who's the better blogger by hunting down new brands/companies coming into the Malaysian market. Unknowingly to them, they have been conned by a bitter backstabbing unprofessional blogger (who probably tells them she has loads of readers in her blog). There's so much more to what I have been keeping in my heart but I guess this is so much I could say for now, just to clear the air about the many questions people has been asking me coz they don't see me hanging out with her anymore.

To the Backstabbing Stay At Home Mental, I forgive you for all the nasty and trashy things u said about me and about all the other girls out there. I pray that God will forgive you for all the curses and foul words you call us for. Also seriously, I don't care if you're much better blogger or famous (in your little head) because your bitterness and blackheart says it all.

P.S: feel free to come as a impostor/reader/yourself to throw in insults and more trashy words for I know who is the real victim here.

174 comments:

  1. Seriously, these type of people are the worst. Not only are they liars, they are cowards as well. :(

    You did the right thing Miu. Be the bigger hearted one and forgive the fella, but don't ever forget it so you won't get tricked by her again.

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  2. thank you electronicfly T_T

    i won't forget what she did to me and I will be cautious of others as well. Learned my lesson the hard way. If she was really my friend, she would just come straight n tell me she wants the brush set instead of spreading trash behind my back.

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  3. pheowwww..that is one type u need to stay away from dear..

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  4. i met someone like this in university and i was in ur position being backstabbed.
    sadly, noone supported me except him...
    i didn't care & forget them forever~``~~hohoho
    i live better so i win!

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  5. Dalila: i found out too late.. i should've stayed away!

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  6. Akiki: T_T at times i feel noone knew my side of the story coz the biatch said it all and make it so convincing. It sux to be the last to know and to be betrayed by someone you thought u love.

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  7. gosh poor Miu..
    hang in there okay?
    ignorance is only way to treat people like that..
    you always gona be my bestest beauty blogger ever! :D *miaaawwww*

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  8. aww let by gone be by gone!
    like Ariel sing all her woes away and garner back new positive readers & frens !!*me here *cheers

    don't dwell in the dark past..and dont mingle with MENTAL SPECIAL ppl...stay away..
    pooor unfortunate soul..*ursula singing

    i luv LITTLE MERMAID! where did u get these photos! if they ever come to do broadway in KL
    i will swingggg there! Part of your worlddddd hehe

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  9. Ahh I totally get you. Dont you feel blogging community is like high-school again? You're a stronger and better person than that person :)

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  10. errrr... that is kinda emm... I thought those kind of things only happen during school? Where we were not matured enough yet?

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  11. Awww gediks! U still readin here?! So long never hear u comment!Thx I am comin our of my shell n saying my side of the story. Probably would cause a reaction to the shewolf but this post is the 1st b last I would write about her. Putting on full ignore mode after this

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  12. babe, don't think about that anymore! Be happy :D

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  13. stellar: after i let this out i feel much better! and can let it be already! God knows the truth! halleluyahhhh

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  14. Joey: now i can forget about.. it's a relief to get this out of my chest

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  15. MY: yeah it happens with aunties as well. This person has a CHILD and she's acting like one too.

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  16. Nic Nic: yeah when it happened, i really felt i was in high school with all the whispering stabs n stares. Now after 6 months, i think i am immune already.. or nearly.

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  17. Wow, what a nightmare!

    I had to LIVE with someone that like in college (she was my roommate - don't know what I was thinking). Good thing you can just think of her as a virtual blog virus, instead of a living horror!

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  18. oh dear.. that was bad.... hope you be ok.. :)

    Take care..

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  19. wen u mentioned knocked up...i tink of Finn and Quinn...soli...i m obsessed with Glee recently..LOL...babe..its good that u can 4get and 4give :)

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  20. Oh.. this kind of ppl really scary one lo..
    Pity Tammy..

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  21. Good on ya babe! We support you! Just get over it. Don't worry, be happy.

    If that person continues this charade, that person is a fool. You got the last laugh so enjoy life and look over that mountain.

    Mount Everest, DONE. What's next eh?

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  22. Life is short make it meaningful. Forgive & Forget what pppl do to us, as long we do it the right way. Ppl will see/notice it but a bit slow. hehe...!

    HeronTerron

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  23. ur doing a great job, i luv yr blog & i wld assume tat this person is JEALOUS of your achievements and wat u have... ;)

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  24. what i hope most is that both of you could make peace. i hope she'll realize soon, holding grudges is very unhealthy !! its very disheartening coz both of you were such a buddy b4 this.

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  25. He who does this and not shall.. ah... F**k it... curses to that backstabbin' no good mothe***.. oh well, forgive and forget,and remember the power and the shield of ignorance :)

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  27. I got a frend like that too, is pretty scary. She was close to me and then backstab other ppl, after that she frend with others until become close frens then backstabbed me. This is wat we call "3 min frens". Learn to choose ur frens dear, sometimes as we grow, we need to keep some and drop some bad ones along. That's life!

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  28. Good to see that in you, hope you feel better! no worries you still have the support of your loyal followers...

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  29. Hmm..

    what a scary world we live in. I've watched enough shows to know that people are capable of doing that.

    But when it actually happens us, we are not sure how to respond/react/relate to it.

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  30. Since you've spit it out, you can leave it behind and move on to better and brighter things!!

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  31. oh my... crazy women u got there. hahaha..

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  32. ms. wiggle: oh man urs must be even more horrible than mine. Did u lose a few pounds over this? (weight) coz I lost a few pounds due to "no appetite" when I found out about this haha.

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  33. Poor Miu, the best thing that you can do just to ignore this type of people who is coward and fear of them self. Move on girl...meow... :D

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  34. oy, FINALLY you let it out.

    to me you're just stating your side of the story.

    good for you, girl!

    as for me, personally i think there was always something abt her that isn't quite right. you know the feeling you get when someone is being nice to you and something tells you that person isn't sincere? that's the vibe i picked up from her.

    and... maybe dia meroyan tak "dapat" selalu so made an enemy out of you.

    anyway.... just let the bitch bark la. you're the tree, remember? you don't give a damn.

    you're so much better than her. and you KNOW who your TRUE friends are. friends who really care abt you. not because what you can give them.

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  35. miu,
    this world actually is really like that. me do have almost same experiences as you. i know is very hurt especially u really treat them as good friends.

    what you can do is just stay away abit and talk less to those ppl...

    do bear in mind... always don't be too close to anyone especially those called "frieds"... because you never know one day they will stab on you.

    be enjoy your life ... no need to be sad because of those ppl. :)

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  36. miu,
    u already a winner coz only losser will act such way..
    Fr. AnnMah

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  37. miu

    she is the one with the interest right? Boring blog i tell u. dont compare with her. I support u.

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  38. Sorry to hear that Miu...I also faced these problem once and the most hurting part is I already considered her as my BFF..hmm..just hang on there Miu..just do what u think is right... =)

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  39. she jealous you so she said u from back and stab u... ignore her...

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  40. Oh..I think I know who is tat fellas already... never mind. Let be the positive, always think positive and attract positive one!

    Cheers Miu!

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  41. poor miu but it's ok... u have much more frens that are with you supporting you...just continue do the best you could it all matters :D

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  42. miu, do ignore this kind of ppl. dont waste your energy and time to think or act about it.

    be happy and life goes on.

    CHEERS :)

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  43. Sorry to hear about that Miu, but you're fabulous so keep being awesome you :)

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  44. Woo...this is hot issues... can't believe it until u tell this story... It took me sometime to guess and even try to google for this person (hehe, I'm a Pat Poh) then finally u mentioned she is blogger V and that she has a little princess... Ah hah!!!! I know who already!!! As a middleman, can't comment much since I donno wat's actually happened. But honestly, I prefer reading your blogs MORE, coz somehow I can feel your "sincerity", though I do read her blog as frequent. Also, personally, I don't think a mom should spend too much time on shopping stuffs coz that not a good education/model for her child. I can't imagine next time how materialistic her child would be if always expose to this spending/shopping/splurge. Anyway, time can prove everything. Hope u cont' blogging with all exciting stuffs.

    p/s: I'm searching her blog for those insulting post just to find out how she wrote about u. (yeah,I'm a gossip girl :P)

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  45. dear miu,
    am so sorry to hear abt that and believe or not i met a same kind of girl last yr, i think i can understand exactly what u feel , i have been down for the whole shit for few mths and until now still feel afraid when knowing someone new, it really left some shadows for me as i really treat her as best friend and what i get is ......
    sigh...

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  46. Wow~ This is horrible.
    I wish I can know her name and beware of her or something. It's so hard to know a person's real face sometimes.

    Stay strong Miu, time will prove her wrong!

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  47. Dear Miu

    I've been a silent follower of your blog. I hope you remember me from the Clarins workshop. I really love your blog, tht it's the only blog in my phones favourite tab. Please do not feel dishartened by people with no feelings. You are doing a great job, keep it up.

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  48. anyone know what her facebook link..? i wan pat pat ?

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  49. Dear Miu,

    I always believe in this saying "what goes around comes around". I will alwiz support you.

    Kind Regards,
    Alexis

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  50. I don't support you or her, in fact i bloody well dun care about either one of you. What you are doing is also not call the bigger person, because u are doing exactly what she is doing - calling each other names. Who cares if she wants to emo and call you names?If you are a bigger person, you would just ignore her and cut all ties. Take the high road. If you think that you are the better person, then dun downgrade yourself to her level.

    This is the part I most pissed off when reading the comments.
    AnnaYJia, you should be bloody ashamed of yourself for insulting a mother like that. Yes, all mothers complains abt how naughty their children are but that doesn't mean she doesn't love her daughter. But for you, an outsider to accuse her of not loving her daughter is really a STUPID and inconsiderate thing. As an outsider, what do you know about the lessons she teaches her daughter, WHO ARE YOU to judge her? In Miu miu case, I dun want to side anyone, but for you to be so BITCHY and attack her daughter's character out of context is way too much. If you wan to attack her, just hit her literally, but leave the poor kid out of it. This goes to show that you are also a person of poor character.

    Oh yeah, it is very clear that the blogger V is V..v.. doesn't take a genius to decipher it.

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  51. oh cut the crap lah.. we know who u are

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  52. Dear Alexis thx, indeed what goes around comes around. In fact she used that and said that karma will get me. I have no idea what she meant when I did not do any harm to her or her family. Anyway, I am immune to her everyday curses and revenge that I'll die or something.

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  53. Hi Vina,

    yes i remember you! vina17 right. Thanks for following my blog, i did not know you're secretly reading it.. coz i never read your comments for so long until this one. Thanks for the encouragement. I feel much better!

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  54. Reiko: thanks, i think she won't learn from anything. She's too self-righteous. After this post, my happy memories as her friend will be erased along with all the bad ones for the past months.

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  55. Dear Sarah thx for sharing T_T i also understand how u feel it must be really nightmare for you. I got nightmares when I first found out what she's been doing. I think we need some time to heal our hearts, it's like breaking up with someone u once share good moments with.

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  56. Hi Gossip Girl @ Pat Poh,

    you should be her FB friend, there's where all the really nasty comes from the closet. Her Gchat status is also very creative, sometimes in foreign language using XXX words to scold me or probably another person she's biatching about. Anyway don't take it to heart about siding anyone, this is my post to tell her, I am not going to keep quiet n while she has a gala with funky names and asking her god to punish me.

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  57. foxy dearie, thanks for believing in me. My gawd why is everyone commenting in this one post.. when i have so many posts.... haha..

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  58. Yea, why tis post u got so many comments than your makeup review post??? No wonder xia xue can gain so much publicity hahahah

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  59. Cath: i ignoring since last year, but i had enough of hiding my emotions. This one post and I will bury my emotions forever.

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  60. doroshi: yah T_T why lah.. i didn't know i got so many readers..

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  61. Lisa: sometimes i miss the days when i started blogging n u girls made me so happy. shopaholics forever!!!

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  62. Nian Tse: positive, i must learn from Master Kenneth the art of ignorance and u! positive ok that's my mantra from today.

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  63. baby cholics: yeah i suspect she jealous of a lot of things n it's not the brush set. If she want to destroy friendship bcoz of blogging, i cannot do anything.

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  64. Ameh: T_T looks like at least once in our life, our BFF (to be or is) will hurt us. Thx, I am becoming immune day by day. That's why already berani express myself in this post. Really dun care about her anymore.

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  65. i guess now ur blog count for tis wk, is increasing mannn hahah

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  66. acee: fuh! I LOVE U BABE!!! but lama tak jumpa ni.. mana u pergi.. comment pun tak nampak :(

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  67. Thx Ann, but I know i'm not any better coz of this post. But it's something I need to do to get this all behind. Also to straighten things out. I am not a liar, a thief, a snatcholic, or a whore or biatch. Neither am I a megalomaniac, selfish 2 face horrible creature (as she describe in her FB). I blog n do my best for readers and i wish everyone to benefit from my posts.

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  68. Doroshi: hahha.. no lah don't think so.. how ppl come to read if they duno got such blogger. Its all my silent readers, being not silent anymore

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  69. Ally: true true ally.. can be friends but becareful right? i am learning from my mistake and experience to be a better person. Thanks to readers like u, i will be stronger too. Hugs

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  70. Kitty, thx for always calming me down and advising me to be strong for the past 6 months. Without your legendary tree aka dog barking quote, i probably gone mad and posting all kinda rubbish and cursing her as well. Thx for being a friend when I needed one the most.

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  71. Fizlynn: MEOWW MOVING ON!!! so much to blog so much to do! this one post, final boo boo! :D thx fizzlyn for your encouragement! ignore button on!

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  72. Fiona K: if i tell u full story, it's really crazy woman. My post makes her sound like just any human being .. haha

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  73. Pigita: yes leaving behind for a brighter future with a new good friend spot to fill haha..

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  74. CY: true..that's why i took nearly 7 months to say something.. well anyway i forgive her. N if she still wants to be friends with me, she can have a heart to heart talk with me.

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  75. Xscal: I thank God for giving me such nice readers, without them.. i would be nothing. Talking to myself everyday, admiring my hauls by myself.

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  76. wow 72 comments..this topic is too hot.. or mayb there are more comment on other post..i feel sorry for you... good luck have more fun ignoring the person...:D heee

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  77. Doroshi (refering to your earlier comment)

    3 mins friend? instant pour hot water type? i like the way u say it.. keep some n drop some. I think i prefer anti-social..that's why i have blog.. but din know i would be sociable bcoz of it. Sigh not expected but a great turn.

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  78. AnnaYjia: To tell you the truth, you're not the first one who say this but the first one to comment it in my blog. As much as I dislike how she talk about her daughter, it's probably stress and her moodiness. She does love her daughter. Well if she knows what ppl are saying about this, then she'll understand how i feel when she make nasty remarks about me without thinking how hurtful it is to the party, regardless of whether it's true or not.

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  79. Meor: maybe for the first time, ppl are reading my sadness instead of my happy posts.. so they SOS come comment. Thx, i already immune now to her.

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  80. Master Kenneth: fulamak? is this the modern version of a wise sifu?! but simple n can understand. Kungfu Panda should use this for next movie! Puts on Shield of ignorance! roger

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  81. Sexymummy: kaima, i wish we could be friends, but i din start this war. She has to make peace with me coz my heart is open anytime.

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  82. Irene: thank u! your words encourage me to be a better blogger! My achievements.. it's all bcoz of the readers like you :) that's the best achievement.

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  83. Sherry: true, but its not a reason to call ppl whores n biatches n go temple curse them to get beaten. U bkful as well, being a blogger dun mean u have to be nice to everyone.

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  84. Heron: I have forgiven n forget. Let's move on ^___^ finally got this out of my chest. No more days of thinking what happened, why it happen what went wrong.

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  85. Abby: That mountain has a pot of gold! let's go shopping!!! yes..shopping makes it all good again!! (bad habbit.. dun learn from me pls)

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  86. Jean: she not scary to me anymore, coz i dun need to be afraid of blackheart person. Don't worry :)

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  87. Cai: yeah and i know who stood up for me n who didn't too.

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  88. I think i know who this person is and yes i am very shocked to hear all this coz although i am not in ur close circle of friends, i do know tht she used to hang around with u all the times til now apparently...why must there be this kind of ppl around...i mean what do they get by spreading all this malicious rumors..its not going to feed them or make them rich..all it does is self-destruction...so miu, move on with ur life...u have many supporters and there are not many of us who believe the rumors abt u...so u go girl....

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  89. Yr great supporterApril 20, 2010 at 10:32 AM

    Miu

    Luckily, dia tak jadi doctor (konon, lah). Graduate lah, kaya tak payah kerja. If not, imagine, apa ubat dia bagi kat kita bila gila. and I menyampah her stupid bluetooth. trademark konon!! She claimed Husband kayalah pergi overseas always lah. Buat FOTD, macam dia lawa sangat. Complain SA treat her like dirt. Mother In Law buat muka etc...Maybe she and her F*@# Face deserve those treatments and remarks. Always complain abt people and SA, now semua orang complain pasal dia. I always believe people treat u how u treat people.

    Miu, its good riddance for you babe !!

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  90. aaaaaww love! im sorry u have to go through this madness. haters gonna hate girl ... keep doin u cuz ure followers LOVE u!

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  91. Hi Miu

    glad that you remember.. Haha..i stalk your blog everyday la..I get very reliable and sincere reviews/updates from you. I don't usually comment on blogs, but ts 1 I kenot tahan, coz if u rmbr clearly, ts person is the 1 who bad mouth abt me to u, even whn I didn't do anything wrong. I tot she was like that to people she never met before, but then fren oso she do the same. Haiz..hte ts kind of ppl. Just relax and forget this dark episode..many other worthwhile things to store in your memory card ( brains).. :)

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  92. To Anonymous who posted a comment at on the 19th of April 2010 at 9.35pm.

    1. If you don't care abt Miu why leave a comment? It actually comes across that you CARE. And ho...you CARE A LOT. You care enough (or actually BUSYBODY enough) to want YOUR pitiful opinions to be heard.

    2. And eh hello. SUKA HATI Miu la nak be the bigger person or not. And who the HELL are you to say she's not being the bigger person? FROM SOMEONE WHO WON'T EVEN LEAVE A NICKNAME, YOU ARE SUCH A HYPOCRITE - PANDAI say this, preach that, but you won't even leave your name. Or hell, if you're such a coward, use a FAKE nickname.

    It wasn't YOU that that person bitched abt and ranted abt and badmouthed to god knows who. It was Miu who faced it. So its SO darn easy for YOU to preach that, because YOU don't face what Miu has faced for months.

    Its MIU's blog. So... PIIIIRAAAAHHHHH..... sila BERAMBUSSSSSSSSSSSS from this blog.

    Press X on the top right corner and you can go be a coward on someone else's blog.

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  93. hey dear ~ I've deleted my comment yea ~ bcoz apparently that anonymous has wrong interpreted what I mean , so I just delete it in case there's someone else misunderstand my meaning again lak ~
    May be my English is too poor ~ hehe...

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  94. AnnaYjia: I know, the person is taking advantage of what u said to look like the poor innocent victim. Lagi best she's using it as a shield. Let her do whatever she want. It's always about her, the real megalomaniac and whatever she has been cursing me as.

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  95. Kitty: THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  96. anonymous: i wonder too.. thanks for not believing in the rumors!

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  97. My great supporter: wow.. u really ganas.. meletup.. i guess the golden rule is very much followed by a lot of religions. An example from a Late Period (c. 1080 - 332 BCE) papyrus: "That which you hate to be done to you, do not do to another".[6]

    or the famous "Do Unto you, What you would do unto others".

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  98. Vina: yea I am sorry that happened to you too.. even at that time i ask u not to take her seriously but.. =_= i kena pulak?! sigh.. looks like i owe u an apology! I'm sorry T____T and I hope you still continue to troll my blog. Thx for your 1st time commenting!!! (haha.. i laughed when u say why u wanna comment)

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  99. Kudos to you Miu, that's the way to boost your readership!

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  100. Anonymous: I already have readership :)

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  101. Miu i saw all her fb status for few months, i never talk she was biatching about u.. i sincerely thought she was victimized. Now i know your side of the story, I feel even if anyone was wrong/right, she shouldn't curse you to hell or call u a cunt/stupid/moron in foreign language everyday. It was quite shocking to read such things from a lady.

    Just comes to show a person's personality through her choice of words.

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  102. oh pompuan tu... pretending to be the innocent one now.. dah bebulan baca fb dia caci, maki, etc.. u.. sekarang plak... pandai belakon damsel in distress... macam antm lah ni

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  103. dear.. dia sedang delete semua fb status dia kat fb sekarang, memang admire.. ada tenaga delete info lama lama, ingat takda orang tau ke.

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  104. can't believe she thinks by posting and pretending to be nice now... will change what she did.. it's a bit too late? we have seen what she could do with her creativity (good one miu)

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  105. ey.. she deleted me from her fb.. i think anyone who wanan leave comment here should not reveal their names.. later we get cursed as well?

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  106. ye ke? i also anynoymous then.. macam banyak orang anonymous sekarang.. takutnya.. kat mac workshop, bila i tanya dia kawan miu ke? (kat nov/dec tahun lepas), terus jeling kat i n tak sopan langsung. How i know u 2 fight kan? kena layan orang macam ni ke?

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  107. Suzi.. ops.. i mean anonymous haha.. omg.. do u have to all be anonymous now..

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  108. all the anonymous: oic.. deleting fb status? i wonder why? thanks for telling me n if she deletes u.. then add me in facebook I will take u in..

    Tammy Lim (FB)

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  109. Connie: I am not the only one she became creative with.. someone told me her latest update last weekend was about some freakster that has no credibility. I wonder who is she talking about? me or another girl. Anyway I don't care anymore, I have outgrown her months of cursing.

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  110. OMG...she really delete all her FB nasty status
    tis is so call pity housewife...noting free to do...but got time to 'erase' o her nasty status n etc..really salute to her...tryin to b sweet n clean now...

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  111. takutla.. nanti tersalah makan ubat.. ahak ahak ahakkakkaa!!!

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  112. hiding name, coz she saw i comment here n she delete me in fbApril 21, 2010 at 12:21 AM

    I got deleted from her facebook today

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  113. anonymous: Miu dun need to boast up her readership, she is already famous. Go insult someone else.

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  114. delete bcoz commented here? =_= small gas

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  115. Nicky: thanks :) i think that's doroshi.. she asking me to be popular like XiaoXue

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  116. read her blog today, she's so good at acting.. i must say. Miu u r also increasing her readership.

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  117. didn't dare tell u about cny time.. she put in her fb or gchat.. that she's going to temple to tah sei yan. I am not sure who she's talking about.. but i don't think praying to temple things like this can be "deleted" like fb.

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  118. Anony: go temple "tah sei yan", meaning "hit small ppl", got such thing happen in temple? i tot that only happen in those bomoh area...take the pic of the person u hate, n hit it with ur shoe. Evil!!

    Miu: wat am saying is looks like a rant blogs get more comments than makeup reviews, that's wat xia xue did mah lol.

    Ooo I bet this V person did read ur blog..or else how she know who who who comment here n got deleted muahhahahah. Now she contributes to ur blog counts again.. ;)

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  119. Gossip girl: No wonder I couldn't see any trace of bad things about Miu, coz she cleaned up all the evidence. Luckily I didn't put my name at first place. If not, probably she'll put my name on paper to slap/slam/kick in the temple. Today she finally "voice up" in her blog. Here are my favourite phrase:

    I am aware of the hateful remarks, lies and distortions this individual and her followers have been slinging at me over the past months.
    (past months?? I thought I only saw Miu's post against u started from this post which was few days ago?? who is distorting the timeline?? who is lying?)


    I'll happily leave the bullying, mean-spirited attacks and petty jealousies to those who specialize in them.
    (jealousies?? I hope she can be specific on what jealousies? Probably she thinks Miu are jealous of her coz she has a rich husband and a pretty little princess, which Miu u don't have. Aww...too bad, sucker Miu!)

    Dear Miu, things are going heat up! Hope u can stand the pressure. We'll always be there for u.

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  120. I follow both your blogs and I am also n both of your facebooks. I don't know who b**** about who and who is saying their side of the story. BUT I DO know the way she's talking like it did not happen now in her latest post or that she's being attack is outright B.S! U can't cover up what u did girl! even if u start deleting it now, most of your fb friends already knew u were ranting at someone almost on a daily basis!

    while miu's facebook.. is heavily targeting at trying to raise funds for her laptop n doin her garage sales.

    Who's telling the truth? Only V's facebook friends will know.

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  121. anonymous! she really wrote that? who is she fooling?! wow this is like watching a drama involving Ursula trying to be little mermaid. Bravo for the show *puts on Rihana song*

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  122. Anytime Miu.

    I got your back, girl. And I know ramai lagi of your friends do so too.

    Love ya.

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  123. kesiannya miu...kat ofis muka tak bertenaga bulan bulan.. ini sebabnya?

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  124. heard she comment on her own blog to sue u? sue for? i think miu u should counter sue her back.. we can all be your witness. But wait till go court only i reveal my name, witness protection.

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  125. miu tu.. rajin kumpul duit beli laptop.. ada masa utk layan dia ke sepertimana dia tengah cakap ni?

    baik jgn pergi blog dia.. nak bersandiwara dapat readership ni

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  126. I've got deleted from her FB too on yesterday ^^ Yippie ~ XD
    I found that the Anonymous commented in her blog and said :" I find it rather ironic that some of the people who criticised you remain your followers (I can see from their pics)." ...wow ~ I'm pretty sure that she is convicing us from stop following blogger V's blog ^^ haha...

    And the Anonymous said again :" So what if your husband buy a lot presents for you?? I actually hapy for you. May be they don't have, and jelous, that why always chase after samples here there. " ...oh yeah ? Bcoz of we jealous of her ,so we need to chase samples here and there ah ? Don't tell me she nvr get any samples b4 !

    And I hate the way she attacked CY ! OMG ! I can say it is consider humuliation already !well who is the biatch now !Didn't she commented first in your post that she didn't take each side ?!

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  127. Hey don't make dirty of my idol sailormoon ok ?! She don't deserve this name ! XD

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  128. Since she deleted us from FB, we sama sama deleted our self dun become her follower in her blog.

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  129. yes ! stop following her blog already ~

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  130. Went to V's blog. Actually she does look like Ursula *giggle* Went through all these backstabbing in the past. Feel sad everytime i think about it.

    Actually I'm just a silent reader, donno the both of you, but I believe you. :)

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  131. wah.panas..panas..never been her fb frens b4..so i missed those drama..but good also laa..no need to let "negative ions" enter my brain by reading her curses n wat-nots..super desperate housewife laa dia tu..who wants to be jealous of her anyway?hubby semua org pun..regardless kaya or not..giv pressies to their wife laa..and if sooooo damn kaya dat ppl wanna be jealous of her..nape suka sgt amik freebies juz like us yg tak berapa kaya ni?and go to warehse sales?like kene go through all the hassle kann...lallalalalallaa..beli ajelah full size kat kaunter..tak payah tunggu warehse sale..tak best buang ajewwrlaa...kata kaya tahap org nak jeless-jeless..lalallalala..err..penah uols jumpa makdatin kaya kat warehse sales?penah?penah?lalalallala

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  132. Melissa: I went through also in my school days n college days. It had definitely make me stronger to face the Ursula today. My post is an expression of what I have been keeping in my heart for months. It's not a post to ask for support. Rather I feel it's more of a closure that our friendship has ended, n that I forgive her.

    Thanks for believing in me :)

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  133. Anonymous: I don't need jealous her..coz i can get my own money buy my own pink laptop, shopping n a lot stuffs ^______^ I only get samples from brands i love.

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  134. all the drama that she started, is from i guess watching too much HK TVB series !!

    hang on there, miu ... we love u !!

    blogger V, pls repent, it'll do good for ur soul.

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  135. Just started reading this and am quite clueless. Maybe you could post some links so new readers know what the squabbling is about? Thanks. Would help if you post some older stuff here for us to read. Just curious.

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  136. Hi Anonymous,

    nah..this just a post about my feelings and heart matters. Small stuff, don't need to link or show who I am talking about. Ursula is good example already.

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  137. i don't have older stuffs to post, coz this is the first time i voiced out my unhappiness. Rest of my posts is about shopping haha..

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  138. Miu,

    Hang in there, girl. Takpe, ramai lagi kawan u yg bagi support and sincere.
    Jangan kawan dia lagi, iee jahat tau perempuan tuh. x suka.

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  139. hey ~ actually I got ~ some...er...evidences ? haha... Last time I was inviting her to join my giveaway,then she said something..I dunno...weird thing ~ I was like , "huh? wth...I am happily inviting you to join my giveaway , why are you telling me this and that?" , so then I print screen and saved what she has said..I don't even know why am I saving it ! haha...

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  140. Anna: u.. r so weird.. why u save..such a thing.. which is how long ago liao.. send to me pls!!!

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  141. haha...sucker ~ say me weird and why do you wanna see that huh ~ haha...
    I emailed to your gmail already. The title of document I nvr change one,it is the name that I wish to put when I'm saving it XD

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  142. haha omg u scold me!!! wuwuuw... my next post.. Blogger A is..xxx xxxx...xx.. hahaha!!!

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  143. hahaha...If you did really post it then I'll go the all the beauty department stores in Klang Valley and spread the bad rumors about you ! haha...

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  144. it is so obvious most of her blog comments are done by her. Malu..........

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  145. Another anony : You do think so ? Yea that's what I thought too ^^

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  146. Move on la.. forget about her... I think got gaps since she is aunty or rich tai tai..where else we are just youngster which we earn or hard earn money by our self.... diff channel la..

    so we do what we like.. she do what she like..

    what every she talk.. or she do..let it be..
    biar la dia seorng orng... if she wanan sue .. sue cukup cukup la..see she can sue ...

    we should stop this.. dun waste time talking on this aunty anymore..

    ------END------

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  147. Learn, Grow & Enjoy Life.. :)

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  148. definitely enjoying life now

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  149. Blogger A: yes i agree, don't waste time anymore on this auntie.

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  150. gosh all u anonymous... isn't she goin to say i am also putting anonymous comments?! dahlah banyak O_O anonymous.. haha..

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  151. walau ~ blogger A ?!!! that's definitely not me ya !

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  152. I just came back from reading the other blog, aside from the latest post, I really dont see any mud slinging unless it was on her FB. I am really on both the blogs to check out what stuff I want to buy, and I think you are both good, in your own ways. Since you both have different blogs, just exist in your own world. That is nothing wrong with her being rich, happy, having a loving husband and a beautiful daughter. It is cruel to belittle her just because she is so open. Actually, don't you all aspire to have her lifestyle? Is that what makes some of the readers here so "emot"? Sour Grapes?

    On the other hand, it is great to earn your own money and be able to afford whatever you wish to buy. If you are single, there is no need to ask or schedule your life around someone, you can do as you please.

    There are lots of ppl out there who can't even afford a decent meal, let alone spending hundreds of ringgit for a few grams of colored powder. Do you girls know how much those cosmetic companies made from us yearly?


    So, girls, chill out and live your lives. It is after all, just a hobby.

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  153. No doubt, most of us appreciate what we have/are given. Each one of us gave our 2 cents worth to this. Thats call freedom of speech. That woman may have money but definitely not class!! I say she DESERVE to get back her own medicine.

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  154. Haha...finally you replied. You have corrupted my life with shopping. In a GOOD way! Now i can't stop.

    But dearie, seeing that this post has garnered so many comments and is probably your most commented on post, be it actual followers or silent readers/anonymous, you know that people are supporting you.

    Even the silent ones are coming out now. So take pride in that knowledge and delete the crap from your mind.

    You know i won't be anonymous.

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  155. Anonymous:

    I have been existing in my own world until she broke it down with her incessant name calling and everyday curses on her FB & Gchat status. Please separate my blog posts with the comments given by readers as commentors (both negative and positive) are just giving their opinion.

    But to get this straight, my post is about my heart confession of what happened to me in the past few months. It did not say anything about her being rich, poor, has a loving husband or child. Since you think we or I are envious of her rich lifestyle, I would like to say that I don't agree and I wish she was rich in character instead.

    You should tell her blogging is just a hobby as she's the one taking this overboard.

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  156. Dear Miu's Fan,

    Yes I appreciate your 2 cents! and there's no better 2cents than the ones who knew who we were in the beginning and had the wisdom to know and to see what other's can't

    I seriously don't think that person is rich. She might be a big spender, but she's not big on heart.

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  157. Abby: press delete button & press "empty" trash bin.

    MYGOODNESS are u BLOGGER A? i think we just started a Blogger Initial phenomenon.

    Thanks babe! for being a God fearing creature. I do appreciate everyone's comment whether it's positive or negative ^__^ and 2 cents. I become stronger knowing I am not alone, and wiser knowing the truth.

    I also feel much better standing up to that bully and telling her I am not afraid of her and I HAD enough of her bitching about me. Yes I guess I learned a great deal from watching GLEE (everyone should watch!!!)

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  158. Thats right Miu! U stood up. Never get bullied, no matter how powerful yr opponent may seem. This goes to all those who are bullies/potential bullies. Dont think u can get away. Every dog has its day!!

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  159. Following this for a few days already. There is something I don't quite understand here... why you all are thinking that all her rantings in her FB or gchat as alleged by so many of you here are about you, miu? so what if she want to say whatever in her Fb or gchat? anyone can say anything they want, good or bad in their fb or gchat or whatever. did she ever say its about you? if not, then why you all assume like that? if you have done nothing wrong to her, then why bother what she said? why u so terasa if you have not done anything wrong?

    Just curious.

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  160. I find it interesting you question what was written in the FB/Gchat as if you know what was written? Also I find it interesting that you're contradicting what you have just said about freedom of speech. I do agree nobody can do anything about it.

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  161. Anna: for a second, i thought Blogger A was u! mana tau it's another Blogger A! whahah dam funny lah..

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  162. Miu's fan:

    thanks my fan! whoever u are! Just like that american sumo guy, he's not as big as the sumo wrestlers in japan, but whether the opponent is big/huge/fat, he still gave it all he could whether losing/wining! now he's so famous and he also wins :)

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  163. Who's talking about freedom of speech? I don't know what was written....but from reading all the comments, i think you are all just making assumptions. and the whole group of you just attacked her senselessly. If you think that person is writing about you, then go confront her.....may be it's not you....and instead you start to accuse her. You call her coward then you be the brave one and confront her.

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  164. seriously.. u don't what know u just said earlier on =_= ? then clearly u shouldn't be giving anymore of your opinions which further contradicts whatever you're saying.

    For what I know, you could be her? and most interestingly is.. I actually never said who I am talking about but u seem to know and conclude what actually happened?

    Hell :) if i am a coward, then the person you're rooting for (whether it is yourself or as anonymous) is even a bigger coward.

    Give it up. You're boring me with your no brainer comments.

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  165. orang anonymous ni macam tau kisah benar miu ke? dari semua commentor kat sini.. semua pun tau siapa orang jahat tu..

    quite easy due to the following reasons:

    1. the backstabber actually told it to us herself, thinking she could get us to believe her "damsel in distress" story.

    2. she did not only backstab miu, she backstabbed a lot of people here (which u did not read Miu's post properly, Miu said she n girls. I highlight GIRLS. SO your assumptions that it's all just miu is of coz.. tak accurate lah sayang.

    3. now the backstabber buat lah story dia kesian.. takda orang nak caya lah... sebab kita semua dah tau pun apa dia buat tanpa Miu cakap kat sini.

    fyi, u boleh anonymous dan mengarut kat sini.. i pun boleh anonymous mengarut kat sini okie? pandai cakap siapa siapa coward, nama pun tak letak?

    u boleh call balai polis lah utk mengarut lagi

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  166. miu, ignore those who got trapped by V's "sandiwara" show.

    from your cowardly die hard fan.

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  167. thanks all, i gotta go sleep. Tired and I have to work tomorrow.

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  168. goodnight miu,

    ignore je yang tak tau apa benda, bukan salah mereka la

    ops.. ada berapa "mereka" ni?

    satu?
    dua?
    tiga?

    mungkin nak balance out the fengshui sini ke? tak puas hati banyak orang komen baik, so dia kena drama komen tak baik.

    Bagus jugak kita letak air terjun kat sini lah

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  169. oh!!! now i understand the fb frust.

    kind of you not to give credit to her/him (hope it's not me, i might be bitching unwittingly....)

    still, it takes all kind to make this world and now that you have seen her true colour, just stay away from her, even when she comes back crawling and kissing the floor you walked on ... :P

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  170. Hi I am new here n I am a blogger too. I find it annoying that ppl are commenting based on commentors and not the post. The rude anonymous actually follows the commnts but not the post? Frankly there's only1 post to follow but she said she been following it ffor days? Is there a update? There seems to be only 1post about this. As a third party, I dun see why the bloggerplusizekitten can't talk about her personal life when others can? Are we bloggers not allowed to do so? Also I dun know who she's talking about? If someone can't name call her, r u saying she's not able to retaliate n name call too? I am assuming neither party has come open and one is just being honest with her feelings.

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